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Sampeah
The Sampeah is a Cambodian traditionally greeting style or way of showing respect. While performing the salutation or mutual recognition “Sampeah”, people have to raise both hands, and place their palms together in the lotus-like fashion while bowing slightly. The word often spoken with the Sampeah when greeting somebody is Chumreap Suor, while Chumreap Lea is spoken when saying goodbye.
Hello In Cambodia And Other Greeting Etiquettes In The Country
Cultural norms of respect and hierarchy, which have existed for generations ago, are still followed by every Cambodian citizen. But they might not be familiar with typical foreigners who visit the country. In other words, culture shock may exist among the traditional greeting etiquettes. However, you can see that in the way Cambodians greet each other. Sampeah is the most respectful and polite way to welcome, pay gratitude, or apologize to whom you are expressing in the conversation.
When you greet, thank you, sorry, or say goodbye in Cambodia, the traditional gesture is like praying (put your both hands together like lotus shape). People have to bow their heads a little bit and simultaneously combine their hands. Sampeah is a Cambodian greeting etiquette that is commonly used, especially when meeting families, acquaintances, or co-workers.
How to say hello in Cambodian? When you use the word Chum Reap Sour (meaning Hello in Cambodian), this formal expression is usually followed by the Sampeah gesture. What about how to say Hi in Cambodian? You can say Sour Sdey, and it does not require the Sampeah gesture as this is also regarded as hello in Cambodia, and the word is frequently utilized with closer relationships like friends, or younger families. Although the Sampeah is a form of greeting, it is also a common way to say thanks or apologize and is an important part of Khmer culture which is heavily influenced by Indian Hindu and Buddhist culture.
You may wonder how we do greetings in Cambodia? you might want to hold your hand gesture longer than the verbal expression when you are at official meetings or with older people. This is a sign of showing more respect. In return, you will be regarded as a gentle person. Thus, to get rid of being culture shock, you should learn the appropriate way of Cambodian greetings before booking Cambodia trip packages.
As mentioned earlier, Sampeah is a hand expression in which the higher your hands are placed and the lower your bow is, the more respected and gentle you are regarded. Even though it is perfectly appropriate to shake hands with Cambodians. As a foreigner, Sampeah in the traditional manner would be much welcomed as a demonstration of your understanding and respect for the country. And I am definitely clear that the Cambodians would be surprised and decent with this kind of act.
Before diving further, every foreigner should know how to perform “Sampeah” in a correct and proper way.
There are generally five different hand gestures that you need to perform for Sampeah. Each position has a distinguished level of respect to whom you show “Sampeah”. To start off, bear in mind that every Sampeah is required to place both palms together like a lotus flower to perform correctly.
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Chest Level: Since the sampeah is hierarchical, the first sampeah gesture is on the chest. It is used when you greet friends or other people of the same age or status by placing the budding lotus's hands on the chest.
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Mouth Level: The second one is mostly seen in the palms' positioning on the mouth. It is utilized to greet, thank you, sorry, or say goodbye to people with higher statuses, such as older relatives, bosses, and so on.
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Nose Level: The third Sampeah is put at the nose with a head bowing down a little bit. This gesture must be used to show respect to parents, grandparents, teachers, or the elderly.
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Eyebrow Level: The fourth one is for respecting the king, monks, or female and male monastics (bhikkhunī & bhikkhus in Sanskrit)
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Forehead Level: Last but not least, in the case of praying to Buddha, Gods, sacred statues, or temples.
Here Are Five Instances in Which You Should Deliver The Right Sampeah
Social status, ranking, and age are the first thing to understand. People with the same level can Sampeah each other on the chest. Moreover, If you are greeting your employer, senior individuals, or someone you admire, your Sampeah should be placed below your mouth or lips. For older families, like parents, grandparents, relatives, or lecturers, you may want to Sampeah them by placing the fingertips touching the nose. Other than that, if you happen to pass by the walking monks, you should bow down with your palm close to your hands and fingertips touching your eyebrows. In addition, you should do the same behavior to kings and male and female nuns.
Now after you have met four different situations, let’s explore the last one that is considered the superlative social status in Cambodia. Temples (mostly are regarded as sacred places), sacred statues, and Gods are the top respected rank. Therefore, you should place your hands together up high with the thumbs touching the forehead while bowing down as deep as you can (can be touching the floor).
For this reason, it is important to remember these five different situations of greeting in order to ensure that you are performing the right Sampeah gesture to the right people. In addition to greetings like "hello" and "goodbye," the Sampeah may also be used to express gratitude or apologies.
Hence, you should keep in mind these five ways of greetings to make sure you are doing an appropriate Sampeah. Sampeah is not just simply a form of saying hello or goodbye, it is also used to say thank you in Khmer (Ar-Kun). Doing Sampeah is a way of expressing respect and politeness, so it would be impolite to not respond back when people do a Sampeah gesture to you. Being respectful and gentle by doing Sampeah is an important part of Cambodian culture; however, if you do not respond the same Sampeah back, you will be considered a rude person. For example, if our Cambodian colleague says good morning in Cambodian (Ar-Run-Sour-Sdey), then you need to reply with the same word with a Sampeah gesture back to them to show respect.
Perception of Respect Regarding Head and Feet
Cambodians believe that the head is the most important portion of the body since it is the headquarters of wisdom and spiritual essence. A person's head is considered sacrosanct. As a result, patting or touching someone's head is a serious insult. Feet, on the other hand, are regarded as a less important portion of the body, so there are not many insults towards feet.
Modern Cambodian Greeting Etiquette
Nowadays, Western cultural impact is now recognized in Cambodia. Cambodian men often exchange handshakes. However, Cambodian women are more likely to stick to the customary greeting and avoid shaking hands with males, particularly of the opposite sex. Not just Cambodia, Cambodian women living in the U.S. are still cautious about shaking hands, particularly the new immigrants or the elderly.https://intocambodia.org/content/sampeah
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sampeah
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Sampeah, the Khmer traditional way of greeting one another, plays an
important role in Cambodian society today. Consisting of five common
postures--five styles of Sampeah, this tradition is one that has been
practiced in high esteem by all Cambodians around the globe.
Every
country has it's own culture, traditions and characteristic flavors. For
a foreigner in any country, some common sense and respect can help to
bridge differences and bring about better mutual understanding. The
Western way of greeting by shaking hands has now been adopted by many
people throughout the world. As a tradition, when one person meets
another, especially on formal occasions, without the shaking of hands
just isn't proper. By the same token, any Cambodian would feel impolite
and uncomfortable not to do the Sampeah when he or she meets people. It
also helps to break the ice when people meet for the first time and
actually creates an atmosphere of friendship and peace. Tradition
dictates that the Sompeah, which dictates placing both palms of one's
hands together in prayer and different styles of bowing, In general, the
junior respect senior and the higher the hands and the lower the bow
the more respect is shown. Mr. Hang Soth, General Director of the
General Department of Cultural Techniques, at the Ministry of Culture
and Fine Arts, who is an expert in Khmer culture and traditions, made
the following remark: "The salutation is very interesting. It is a sign
of respect and politeness. A person who another person pays respect
shall extend his charity and mercy toward a person who pays respect to
the former. Mutual respects from inner heart are great and can achieve
unexpected things."One of our popular adages says 'Chaul Steung Tam
Baott, Chaul Srok Tam Prateh', (in Khmer, when we ride a boat along a
river we must follow the zigzag course of the stream and when we visit a
country we need to follow its local customs and tradition), can explain
that the Khmer is flexible and also respect the culture of the others.
However, many of us also agree with a principle as defining that Boran
menn-men yeut, samai menn-men boroteh, boroteh menn-men sott ter la'ar
taing oh ter, which means that ancient but now slow, modern but not
fully copying from foreign countries, all imported products are not
perfect, thus reflecting that they are not rigid but adapt what they
can. "Carvings on galleries of many Prasat (temples) built for example
around the Angkor epoch (9th and 13th century) are enable visitors to
have some reflection about Sampeah and Cambodian people of the present
time still conserve their traditional way of liking to wholeheartedly
receiving their guests. "Many guests also like Khmer house's traditional
styles but also question why the typical Khmer house possesses short
door that oblige guests to bow before entering the sitting room. The
reason is that the hosts also want his or her guests return greetings."
Soon after the guests enter into their house, the hosts in the olden
time must come out to greet guests and serve them well what are
necessary ranging from inviting latter to smoke a cigarette, chewing
betel with a solution of lime, areca and tobacco, and having drinks and
food. The practice still prevails until today but the exception of
chewing betel in the modern time." In recent decades this customs has
been combined with the western practice of shaking hands by people in
towns and State employees who had more opportunity to contact with the
international community. Although men tend to shake hands with each
other, women usually use Sampeah or the traditional greetings with both
men and women. It is considered acceptable (or perhaps excusable) for
foreigners to shake hands with Cambodians of both sexes. As social
conventions, public display of physical greetings in Cambodia are much
more acceptable between friends of same sex than between lovers of
opposite sexes. Holding hands and hugging is as common among male
members of State delegations but seldom among Khmer female.
"Finally, the Khmer has her own concepts about Sampeah. There are five
specific attitudes and five specific styles of Sampeah. "According to
Khmer concepts, the five common postures of Sampeah are: 1) Angkuoy
baott cheung Sampeah cham pee muk, literally translate as "sitting on
the legs which are folded and the feet are one side to salute by placing
both hands together palm to palm in front of a person; 2) Angkuoy boatt
cheung Sampeah pee cham-hieng, literally translate as "sitting on the
legs which are folded and the feet are one side to salute by placing
both hands together palm to palm by side of a person;3) Lut chung-kung
Sampeah, literally translate as kneeling by placing both hands together
palm to palm in front of or by side of a person;4) Angkuoy choang-hoang
Sampeah, literally translate as "sitting on one's heels in a hunch-down
manner to salute by placing both hands together palm to palm in front of
a person.http://www.leisurecambodia.com/news/detail.php?id=155
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sampeah
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Sampeah is Cambodian way of greeting. there are 5 kind of sampeah.
1. Sampeah for same age or younger
2. Sampeah to respect higher range of peoples, bosses, etc.
3. Sampeah for parents, grand parents and teachers
4. Sampeah to greet King/s or monks
5. Sampeah to pray for God/Buddha or Sacred statues
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